result #114240 - IS THE GAY LIFESTYLE EMBRACED IN HIGH SCHOOLS YET?

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IS THE GAY LIFESTYLE EMBRACED IN HIGH SCHOOLS YET?


[+] serious ballot by contragrain
ACTIVE Apr 23,2007 - Tue Apr 22, 08
Dang. I was a Senior in High School 25 years ago... makes me feel old! As best I remember it, High School was brutal with it's pressure by the mainstream for "conformity" among the masses. Is it still that way? I got the idea for writing this ballot as I was writing the previous one a few minutes ago concerning racial integration at a High School Prom in the "Deep South."
Are there any High Schools out there that have taken it to a new level? I mean, are there High Schools in America and elsewhere where gay and lesbian couples are encouraged and embraced in attending say a Jr./Sr. Prom? I will look forward to reading comments on this topic.

other, see comment 7
Yes, let me tell you of ONE, or SOME 5
No, High Schools are still just as vicious as ever. 4

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Anyone gay people at my school would have admitted it at the expense of their social life and friends, except for a a few butch fag hags, who would invite any social pariah into their midst simply to top up their numbers.

Unless they were a lesbian of course, in which case they would probably get elected to head girl by all the sloberring boys drowning in a sea of hormones and fantasies of chance encounters with open minded bi-sexual women in positions of authority.

by kingAlfredTheGreat on Mon Apr 23, 07 2:21pm [+]

jesus tap dancing christ! please excuse my chubby digits and non-functioning brain.
by kingAlfredTheGreat on Mon Apr 23, 07 2:23pm [+]

Voted : Yes, let me tell you of ONE, or SOME
I don't think it's even an issue anymore. Times have changed. I have and have had friends who were openly gay in school and it's not an issue. Maybe in a backwards place or some rural town, but with the advent of cable TV and the internet, etc., it's such a commonly accepted part of life that I don't think anyone gay person has the challenges they once did. In NYC, we have at least one school I know of that is comprised of almost all gay students.
by patch22us on Mon Apr 23, 07 2:46pm [+]

"we have at least one school I know of that is comprised of almost all gay students."

By coincidence, or design?
by kingAlfredTheGreat on Mon Apr 23, 07 2:50pm [+]

Voted : other, see comment
It's kind of an issue in our school, same sex couples attend proms and it's not against any rules, but ignorant people are still out there causing same problems you probably had in your day.
by larrynelmira on Mon Apr 23, 07 2:53pm [+]

Elmira is rural and backwards for sure patch :)
by larrynelmira on Mon Apr 23, 07 2:59pm [+]

biggrin My coincidence or design? I think design. If I recall, many of the gay students in Public NYC school gravitated toward the "creative," which was not a focus at regular Public schools, so I think it was developed as a test. I don't recall (geesh, I sound like Alberto Gonzales). Anyway, I should clarify that maybe in Public schools there are still issues, but I still don't think nearly as much as there used to be. I still also think that in major metropolitan areas, it's not as much an issue as in more rural areas. (sorry Larry!)053
by patch22us on Mon Apr 23, 07 3:03pm [+]

I meant *By* and not my.
by patch22us on Mon Apr 23, 07 3:03pm [+]

Voted : other, see comment
Not at my old high school. I'm not totally sure why. I never met anyone that was openly hostile towards gays, but nobody really "came out" until after high school. I've since learned of 3 people from high school that "came out" after graduation.
by ThisIsNate on Mon Apr 23, 07 3:07pm [+]

Voted : No, High Schools are still just as vicious as ever.
Heah in Lil' Ole Jawja, I jes' read 'bout some good ole boys whut beat up a kid fer bein' gay. (I love this state. NOT.071)
by Truthseeker013 on Mon Apr 23, 07 3:12pm [+]

Voted : other, see comment
Out where I live, the gay lifestyle is tolerated more now than a few years ago. They are still targets of gratuitous insults, but more and more people seem to accept them and leave them alone.
by margaret123 on Mon Apr 23, 07 3:30pm [+]

Voted : Yes, let me tell you of ONE, or SOME
The high school i went to had a few "open" gays, nobody seemed to care so far as i knowMAG_roygbiv
by socal_sweetie on Mon Apr 23, 07 5:41pm [+]

Voted : other, see comment
yes, all of our highschool Proms are VERY Festive..or 'Gay' as you put it, quite colorful and the Snakbar is delightful - of course, all of the Students are at the Lake getting Hammered and having a wild old Romp but the Prom is very Gay.
by spanky on Tue Apr 24, 07 1:29am [+]

Voted : Yes, let me tell you of ONE, or SOME
Not so much a problem for lesbians from what I have seen.

Did not see any openly homosexual male couples during highschool though. Possibility that they may have felt more of a chance of ridicule? Don't know.
by xxxxxxxx on Tue Apr 24, 07 9:15am [+]

Voted : other, see comment
Embrace it? They promote it.

by _Beelzebubba on Tue Apr 24, 07 9:35am [+]

Voted : other, see comment
I'm glad you highlighted homosexuality as a "lifestyle". Maybe this is hidden in plain sight, but the conflict between people about homosexuality seems to stem mostly from the view that homosexuality is a choice and not a biological predisposition. Occasionally religious fundamentalism will contribute to extreme intolerance in this area.

I do not think that wo/men become sexually attracted to other wo/men because it's a "lifestyle"(?) choice. Heterosexual men don't get hypnotized by gay witches into thinking: "I'm gonna stop being sexually aroused by women and start being sexually aroused by men."
I'm pretty confident in asserting that homosexuality is overwhelmingly biological, but also influenced to a minor extent through socialization and experience. This is a generalization.

(Public) schools can't ban people from dancing because they're gay. I'm sure the degree of tolerance is mostly a function of the social environment.
by Applerod on Tue Apr 24, 07 2:04pm [+]






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