COMMENTS:
Voted : No, stay out of his love life
Whatever happens will happen naturaly. anything you do will simply make it harder. have you got a girlfriend larry? no offence meant!
^ yes
Voted : No, stay out of his love life
you have the best of intentions and i'm sure he knows that. but turn the tables. what would you do if he was trying to fix you up with girls?
it's probably not the easiest thing to hear but i'd leave it be. it will happen when it happens so let nature take its course.
wow quirk i swear i had not read your comment before i posted. freaky.
Voted : No, stay out of his love life
I'd feel awkward being set up with someone by a family member.
^ Yeah, I see all of your points
Voted : Take things on his cue
Take things on his cue. If he shows interest in dating again, help him out a little. If he doesn't, try not to worry too much about it. He knows what's right for him.
I'm not saying that you don't know what's right for him, because sometimes people need a little push that they didn't realize that they needed. You're his son, so you probably know him better than any of us.
It just depends on what his desires are really. I've known people who've been widowed or divorced after 40 years of marriage and then up and get married again less than two years after their spouse is in the ground or gone. Then there's people who are perfectly content living out the rest of their lives with the family that they have left.
Voted : Yes, It's a good thing continue trying
I met my new b/f on Craigslist!!! I say go for it...it's worht a shot right?
Voted : No, stay out of his love life
larry, tried matchmaking people back when I was young and extremely dumb. *Not* wise.
sometimes the right person just stumbles into your life, wanders in.......
but there seems to be this timing problem....
i dunno larry - one can never tell when one will turn the corner and find their true love.
Voted : No, stay out of his love life
It might make him feel weird. If things got serious with the woman, he might feel uncomfortable taking it to the next level with her since you set them up (if you know what I mean).
Voted : Yes, It's a good thing continue trying
But be honest about what you're doing. Don't arrange "accidental" meetings and lie about what you're doing. If you think they'll hit it off, tell both what you're doing and introduce them.
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