result #122814 - DO YOU HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS THAT GIVE YOU GUILT

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DO YOU HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS THAT GIVE YOU GUILT

[+] serious ballot by larrynelmira
ACTIVE Jan 31,2008 - Fri Jan 30, 09

trips?

My aunt is doing this with me, I don't always go home on weekends, other than the fact it's a long drive, sometimes I want to do things with my friends.

My aunt tells me I should spend the weekends with my Dad, she goes on and on how he is alone and other things that make me feel like crap.

I'm not an ungrateful son, but my aunt has a way of making me feel like one.

Do you have such people in your family that have a way of making you feel so guilty, how do you deal with them?

Yes	8
No	3
Yes, I'll explain how I deal below	1

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COMMENTS:
Voted : No
I would think your dad could speak for himself?

by skylab on Thu Jan 31, 08 3:14pm [+]

^ actually I doubt if he would tell me even if he did want me to come home every weekend, but I don't believe he expects that, this is my aunt who I know has his best interest in mind, interfering and thinking she knows best.

by larrynelmira on Thu Jan 31, 08 3:30pm [+]

by UncleRandy on Thu Jan 31, 08 4:51pm [+]

by larrynelmira on Thu Jan 31, 08 5:31pm [+]

Voted : Yes
Oh yeah.

DO NOT listen to your aunt. Your dad is a grown-up, and he does not want you to sacrifice your life to him in any way, I guarantee it.

Larry, I've been there, done that, and I don't want you to do the same. Please listen to me!

by mojo on Thu Jan 31, 08 5:38pm [+]

If your aunt is so concerned, why doesn't SHE go keep your dad company?

You have nothing to feel guilty about. From what I've seen on this website, anyone would be proud to call you son.

by mojo on Thu Jan 31, 08 5:41pm [+]

Larry, sometimes it's hard for a parent to let go of their child. My daughter just moved out in August to go live in an apartment on campus. I miss her a lot!

by RunsWithScissors on Thu Jan 31, 08 5:59pm [+]

^^thanks mojo, rws, I don't think it's my dad who has the problem, it's my aunt who has this ability to give us all guilt trips

by larrynelmira on Fri Feb 01, 08 3:51am [+]

Voted : Yes, I'll explain how I deal below
I ignore them, and go on with what I need to do to make it through life. It (life) is just too damn short to deal with the mental defects of others.

by Truthseeker013 on Fri Feb 01, 08 5:08am [+]

Voted : No
050

And, I know how fortunate I am. Recently, I have seen how a Bad Mother can damage her child. The abuse goes on....

larrynelmira, your aunt probably means well and I have no doubt that you spend time with your Dad, but you are entitled to a good life of your choosing.

by Black_Lava on Fri Feb 01, 08 7:45am [+]

Voted : Yes
Hi mom! 041

Sorry I can't drive across town to come unclog your toilet, but I have a family of five to take care of.

by _Beelzebubba on Fri Feb 01, 08 8:59am [+]

Voted : No
But I did catch a little flack when I missed certain family outings (like a reunion)...

by thesoothsayer on Fri Feb 01, 08 9:07am [+]

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