result #140131 - DOES/HAS THE "MIRROR" DYNAMIC AFFECT(ED) YOUR FRIENDSHIPS AT ALL?

advice : relationship : DOES/HAS THE "MIRROR" DYNAMIC AFFECT(ED) YOUR FRIENDSHIPS AT ALL?

[+] serious ballot by vitasveritas

RunsWithScissors [ballot]140110 refers to our relationship with ourselves. It reminded me of a fortune cookie which I read my last time at Panda Express... "a good friend is the best mirror" But what about the person who doesn't want to look at him/herself? Someone not comfortable with their own physical or--more importantly--personality attributes? People closest to us will "mirror" those back at us, just like the fortune cookie said. There was a time when I used to HATE looking in the mirror, but not anymore. During that time, as I reflect back on it, I also had a hard time being real with my friends. (we all have issues of some sort from time to time) My friendships were affected then by that dynamic, so I would have to answer yes at one time; but not so much anymore. What about you? Have you ever experienced this?

Yes, at one time, but not as much now.	4
I have NO idea what the heck you're talking about.	2
No, I've never experienced this.	1
Yes, and I am currently experiencing it.	0
This is way too "up close and personal" for me to answer.	0

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COMMENTS:
Voted : No, I've never experienced this.
After all, when one is modeled after God, who am I to question my disposition?

by passiveson [+]

^nice. we would all be better off if we could remember that. glad to know someone who hasn't faltered in remembering that.

by vitasveritas [+]