COMMENTS:
lack of vocal expression combined with prejudice. i am an atheist, and when i say that, everyone reads what i say as forceful, loud, and angry. in reality, i speak calmly and in a quietish, matter-of-fact tone. whhen someone says something really stupid, i tend to say "idiot". people read it as "YOU'RE A FUCKING IDIOT!", when it's supposed to be read as "are you aware that you are an idiot? i just thought you should be informed".