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result #92033 - DO MEN LOOK AT INTERNET PORN BECAUSE THEY ARE PERVERTS, OR IS IT MORE BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST BEING LAZY?

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DO MEN LOOK AT INTERNET PORN BECAUSE THEY ARE PERVERTS, OR IS IT MORE BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST BEING LAZY?


[+] serious ballot by jappy
ACTIVE Apr 08,2006 - Thu Jan 01, 09
Hear me out here. This was a discussion I had with my friend online the other night.

Many women believe that men who look at internet porn are doing so because they are perverted, and/or that their man doesn’t care about them when he does this.

We had a different take on this. After some discussion about it, and our own reasons, something stood out. It seemed to be a lot more about being lazy than being perverted. This being because sometimes a guy just wants to get it over with in about 7 or 8 minutes, and that’s hardly fair to your companion if you just want to roll her for your own enjoyment, so the internet allows a quick lazy outlet.

I mean, there aren’t too many women willing to take those types of pictures for their man, quite obviously, so he might have her pictures to look at. I don’t know, what are your thoughts on this? Is the use of internet porn because men are truly perverted, or because they are just being too lazy to get their partner involved and spend the time getting intimate and what not?

Because they're normal... Sex is good healthy fun.. it's normal to want to watch it. 79
Men are lazy AND perverted!! 55
Yes, it's more that men are lazy 48
because girlfriends/wives aren't willing to take those types of pictures or do those kind of things 35
men are looking for a substitute because their woman will not meet thier needs 25
No, men are just perverted, that's all. 23
Men look at internet porn because it's there 19
The person who made the choice above is delusional 15
Online porn is no doubt stimulating, exciting, fascinating..! 14
Would you stop bothering me when I'm trying to beat my meat? 8
Comment below 7
Because they want to look at a big dick banging something??? 7
My man NEVER looks at internet porn 5
It's useful for men who don't have partners 5

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COMMENTS:
ridiculous, I look at naked men on the net, what's the big deal?

by aya on Fri Apr 28, 06 12:22pm [+]

^ Pervert!
by aplmac on Wed May 24, 06 2:28pm [+]

This perspective is simply your opinion of men, but I know a lot of women who watch internet porn, as well as DVD videos, and a few amatures who make their own. So is every one but you a pervert?
by passiveson on Sat Oct 14, 06 9:31am [+]

Voted : Because they're normal... Sex is good healthy fun.. it's normal to want to watch it.
We badly need to overcome our Victorian Era taboos.
by aplmac on Sat Dec 02, 06 6:16am [+]

My hubby doesn't get on the computer, he can't find the delete button even (puhahahaahah) *AHEM* but anyway's i'll look stuff up with him, i always look at hot naked men!
by socal_sweetie on Wed Dec 13, 06 11:57am [+]

I am clueless and dont think I will ever understand it.
by Guest User from [66.157.197.103] on Mon Jan 08, 07 5:30pm [+]

Voted : I have no idea
I have taken pictures for my man and he still looks at porn on the internet.......I dont know what to do
by Guest User from [152.163.100.143] on Wed Apr 18, 07 5:36pm [+]

Voted : Men are lazy AND perverted!!
^ beat him with a table leg. Or shove it in his ass sideways.
by socal_sweetie on Mon Jul 23, 07 9:03pm [+]

Voted : Comment below
^ Young lady, we need to talk. And bring that table leg along... ;D

IMO, it's because the average man is terrified of rejection. Pictures and movies online never say no, they'll do whatever you want them to do, and you can fall asleep afterward without regret.

And no, I did not describe myself.
by Truthseeker013 on Tue Nov 06, 07 6:59pm [+]

Voted : Comment below
Because society shames couples out of openly exploring their sexuality. How many can actually say what they want in bed? Most people are sexually alienated, porn happens to be an outlet for men. Outside of relationships porn is perhaps how most people actually learn about sex.
by Guest User from [90.9.58.236] on Wed Dec 26, 07 3:40pm [+]

Voted : The person who made the choice above is delusional
Those who did make that choice simply never CAUGHT them looking at porn.
by nuckinfutz on Fri Jan 04, 08 12:33am [+]

what the women dont know that men brian get aroused by visual stimulation
by Guest User from [217.54.65.185] on Sat Jan 05, 08 11:59am [+]

Voted : No, men are just perverted, that's all.
I think looking at porn is way perverted. And it is even more perverted if you are married! If you have a wife who loves you, it is like cheating to go online and look at pics of other naked women.
by Guest User from [67.149.127.62] on Mon Jan 07, 08 1:38pm [+]

I don't know. I think I'm drawn to it because I'm lazy maybe and not worth much. I think that perversity is its effect, more than the condition of the viewer. It's a negative thing. From my perspective, I don't value it really. There's something so mean (crude) and "unreal" about it. It's a terrible place to end up. It means to me that there's emptiness somewhere inside, some sort of social disconnect. It has the effect of cheapening the best things, and distorting it as well, and leaving out all the emotions and feelings other than the base ones. It can and does ruin natures and I'm living proof. It's very hard to be the stoic. When all hope is gone, that's the option left. I don't know. Is there any sense to what attracts us. And is there anything more hopeless than an attraction that literally can ruin a person? It's a coward's way out. And no woman or man should respect that. If you can't handle life on the terms it gives you and keep it real. If you can't handle the place that you spirit naturally inherits. Grit is what's needed. And grit's icy. I'm screwed either way, but I think I'd rather be icy.
by Guest User from [72.207.234.110] on Wed Feb 06, 08 9:17pm [+]

Voted : because girlfriends/wives aren't willing to take those types of pictures or do those kind of things
They look at porn because WOMEN are so hard to deal with when it comes to sexual matters.

Women all want something in return for sex which makes them all prostitutes.
by Grapost on Wed Feb 13, 08 10:22am [+]

Voted : Comment below
I have given this a lot of thought. That is why I did not respond right away. I think the reason men look at porn on the Internet is because:

It is there
It is addictive
It catches men’s eyes because most of it is made to stimulate MEN.
(If a woman wants to find porn for HER that relates to her as a heterosexual being, it is hidden and hard to find, but it is definitely there. Hidden because it must not offend men!)

I do not know if it is because of laziness. You say yes, so I will respect what you say. However, I think it MAKES men lazy.

All IMO, of course.

by forgetmenot on Thu Feb 14, 08 9:59pm [+]

Voted : Comment below
It is a spirit of perversion that keeps men obsessed with looking at pornogaphy. Most men who are addicted to porn have been since they were very young. The bible says that the ruler of this world (Satan) Blinds us to the truth. This is why we don't see it as something wrong. It is not healthy or OK to lust after images of naked women or viewing sexual acts for self gratification. This type of lifestyle robs individuals of there morality and ultimately leads to low self esteem, and desensitizes us to respect for women. Men who behave this way see all women as a sexual outlet.
they develop a lack of self respect and become aggressive towards women. God intended for woman to be a life companion for man not a sex toy. It is really difficult to stop abusing yourself especially when the abuse seems harmless. My challenge to my self and any man who accepts is to look to GOD for help! STOP listening to SATAN! I have the same daily struggle with not thinking of women as sexual objects. but I refuse to trade 5 minutes of pleasure for an eternity in hell! STOP believing the lie. Find a Church, not just any Chuch, but one that practices speaking in tongues, casting out demons and healing the sick through the laying on of hands as outlined in the Gospel. Christ is REAL and the miracles he performed were great and we have that same greatness within us. The word of GOD is TRUTH and it is written "Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world" John 4:4
by Guest User from [71.110.6.130] on Wed Apr 09, 08 6:50pm [+]

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