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advice : relationship : HELP, GIRLFRIEND DRIVES ME CRAZY?

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I have been seeing my girlfriend for 3 months now and within that time two women have hit on me. The first one was after a month of seeing her, when I went to a sub shop I usually go to grab something to eat. This woman came in smiling and trying to make small talk. She finally said maybe we could exchange numbers? I said no I am seeing someone and she sort of smirked and giggled and asked if I was sure? I was so baffled by that ever since, why would I lie about that unless it's true?

Then, a couple weeks ago another woman drops by my place looking for someone I don't know named "Bob". She asked if I had a phone she could use and could she come in and sit down. I said ok. So she said she couldn't get through to "Bob" whoever, and asked if I have a girlfriend. I said I did, and she proceeded to rub my chest and playfully say no I didn't. I said well, I do and I'm about to go see her and kindly asked he to leave. She said ok but take this in case I was bored with my 'girlfriend' she said it like I way lying. She wrote a phone number and gave it to me. I guess her house phone.

I threw the number away. I went to my girlfriend's place and heard her whisper, 'Hold up, that's him' before she answered the door. She was on her cell phone and started giggling and went in the bathroom to talk in private. She was whispering low and snickering but I did hear her say 'He was probably scared to get caught.' And I'm pretty sure she meant me. I feel like I'm getting played with and starting to feel paranoid.

I also hate when my girlfriend comes over she looks in every corner of my place. It's a small place and not much to see, but she will open dresser and kitchen drawers, the fridge, closet, just anything like she's searching for some kind of clues. When I confronted her, she said she has anxiety and can't help doing it. One time I came out the bathroom and she quickly put my phone down like she was caught red handed.

Another time, we went out to eat she asked to use my phone and got up to go to the restroom. I'm like you can't just talk at the table? She said she really had to use the phone but really had to go to the restroom too. I couldn't help but wonder why she so conviently had to go somewhere from my view to use my phone. And when she viewed my FaceBook she just browsed everything. She didn't make any amused comments or anything, she was just like a serious detective focused on solving some crime.

She has also called me three o'clock in the morning, saying she can't sleep. The last time she did that, this past friday, I didn't answer because I was just way too tired. She freaked out the next day about why I didn't answer my phone and I explained I needed my sleep. She was upset grilling me about why I needed sleep so much and all I could say that as a human being I require sleep! She hardly said anything the rest of the day, just sat around acting pissed.

I just don't know what to do, I really care about her but all these strange happenings are getting to be too much for me to bear. I feel like I'm going a little insane and starting to think I would have much more peace if I just broke up with her. Somebody help?

Give it time, she will change
Tell her you will leave if she doesn't stop
The truth is right in front of you...
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Submitted by : RandomUsername010
Submitted on : Sep 05,2011 7:17:56 pm
ballot title:

Help, Girlfriend Drives Me Crazy?

ballot number:139873

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Talk to her. More. More. More. More. The solutions to all relationship-related problems can be easily arrived at through effective and honest communication.

by ThisIsNate [+]

Voted : The truth is right in front of you...
You just have to open your eyes see it. She has trust issues. This will never improve. For as long as you two are together, you would have to prove over and over that you are telling the truth. And no matter what the truth is... She won't believe it.

If you think you 'Love' her, remember that she really doesn’t love you. She may say it. Because she thinks that what you two have is love. The love she has now will turn on her, because of her trust issues.

I can see you in the future... You will lose friends because of this woman. You can kiss 'guy things' goodbye. No more nights with the boys, a ballgame, you can watch it on TV. If one of your friends had a bachelor party you would have to lie about it if you wanted to go.

Joining a bowling league, football fantasy team, A softball team. All bye, bye. For as she is concerned, she would never let you do any of these.

If you stay late at work for some overtime, she will have convinced herself that you are with someone else.

You already know all of this... You need to heed you own warnings. You need to run from this woman... far away.

by UncleRandy [+]

Voted : The truth is right in front of you...
If this is who she is now, it can only get worse, never better. This is the tip of the iceberg. THERE IS MUCH MORE TO COME. I dated a guy and the first time he set up some guys to hit on me, I knew right away what was going on. I called him, he confessed he set the guys up to hit on me, and he asked me how I knew. Duh, how could I not know?

I stopped seeing him right away because I did not want to stay in a relationship with someone so unstable and bizarre thinking. It can only get worse, never better.

I would not even waste my time talking with this gal. I would do what I did in the past--get out while the getting is good.

by forgetmenot [+]

Actually, you are awfully lucky you are finding this lunacy out now while you are only three months into a relationship.

by forgetmenot [+]

Voted : The truth is right in front of you...
Dump her & run to the hills..fast!

by scotchierules [+]

Voted : Tell her you will leave if she doesn't stop
and you will go gay

by volt_air [+]

Voted : The truth is right in front of you...
After watching Single white female recently this situation sounds like a big bucket of crazy to me~

by Qui_Qui [+]