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It amazes me the reluctance we have to look into one another's eyes. However I have been told that looking directly into someone's eyes implies an attraction to them. And I understand that in some cultures it is a crime for a woman to look directly into a man's eyes. I myself think it is normal to make eye contact and actually somewhat rude not to make eye contact when you are speaking to another person. Then again, maybe I am unintentionally giving a false impression. The choices are not mutually exclusive, so please pick one (or add one) and make comments.

If you look me in the eye, I think you're hitting on me.
If you look me in the eye, it makes me uncomfortable and I look away.
If you look me in the eye, I think you are rude.
I don't look people in the eye because it's rude.
I don't look people in the eye because they might think i'm coming on to them.
It bothers me when people look away when I am looking at them.
I look into peoples eyes because their eyes reveal something about them.
I look into people's eyes because it helps to make a connection with that person.
I only look directly into the eyes of someone I really care about.
Your eyes are the windows to your soul
Eye contact establishes confidence and equality
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It depends if I'm talking to the person or just passing them. If I'm talking to someone, consistent eye contact seems only fitting. However, if I'm just passing by, eye contact takes on a whole different life. In animals, eye contact is generally seen as a sign of aggression. If it is a male I am passing by and he locks eyes, I interpret it as aggression unless accompanied by a head nod or a quick glance away. The same goes for females, though the aggressive tone is a bit different.

entered by : ThisIsNate
Submitted on : Jan 15,2009 11:26:51 pm

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Voted : I look into people's eyes because it helps to make a connection with that person.
it always turns into a staring contest

by LCD [+]

It depends if I'm talking to the person or just passing them. If I'm talking to someone, consistent eye contact seems only fitting. However, if I'm just passing by, eye contact takes on a whole different life.

In animals, eye contact is generally seen as a sign of aggression. If it is a male I am passing by and he locks eyes, I interpret it as aggression unless accompanied by a head nod or a quick glance away. The same goes for females, though the aggressive tone is a bit different.

Voted : I look into peoples eyes because their eyes reveal something about them.
The eyes are the windows to the soul.
Voted : Your eyes are the windows to your soul
I agree with ThisIsNate...
Voted : Eye contact establishes confidence and equality
I'll look directly into your's or anyone's eyes to establish I'm equal to you on this earth, you're neither above me or below me.

Failure to meet another with direct eye contact implies that you're either intimidated, lying or ashamed.

It can have it's reprocussions though, like with judges, police and supervisors.
On the other hand, as a contractor, its necessary to convey comnfidence to potential clients when bidding jobs.

Voted : I look into peoples eyes because their eyes reveal something about them.
^ Agreed.

A lot of times, the eyes say more than what words do.

Voted : I look into peoples eyes because their eyes reveal something about them.
Plain and simple.
Voted : I look into people's eyes because it helps to make a connection with that person.
When someone *avoids* eye contact, I tend to mistrust that person.
Voted : I don't look people in the eye because it's rude.
haha at the pic!





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