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Voted : Kindness begins with me.
Let's have a big group hug, starting with cranky and herzog.
Voted : Kindness begins with me.
When one is unkind, that unkindness happens to each recipient once, but the giver experiences each time he or she does it.
lol, skylab. I appreciate both of those users. this place would be diminished without either of them. To me, kindness doesn't necessarily mean agreeing with one another on all points.
Voted : Kindness begins with me.
I figure that being kind is often harder than not. If I treat others unkind, I'm likely to be treat the ike, but if I' treated unkind, I have a choice, allow the unkind act to influence me and give it back, or, overlook the transgression and provide the hostile with an opportunity to smile.
If I let another person anger me with unkindness, I've given them control of my mind. I choose not to be a puppet. 
Utilitarianism - the greatest amount of happiness to the greatest amount of people. Maybe B&W users should adopt this philosophy?
And if TheNewGirl (formerly knowns as dazzle and Black_Lava)would stop stalking me, that might be another act of respect.
Although, I do find it odd that TheNewGirl is lecturing me on kindness and respect when SHE is the one who got thrown out of here once because she was being so nasty to people.
Voted : No other choices contragrain? How UN-kind!
I am kind for the most part. There are a few things that rock my boat... so I am not "over-ally" kind enough to let people crap all over me.
I can comprimise quite well, but I am not too trusting of people to begin with. Hence the small & tight group of friends I have outside the net.
Voted : Kindness begins with me.
"Do uno others asyou would ahve others do unto you." I may avoid churches like the plague, but I still hold to some of the tenets.
Voted : Kindness begins with me.
mean people suck
I think contragrain is right, so I'll help out some. I extend the hand of friendship to RamaDUNG:
RamaDUNG, I'm sorry that I feel the need to point out your inability to contribute anything to best and worst that is not negative in nature. I need to realize that you are just not capable of having a positive attitude and will always feel the need to put down others because you yourself have such a low self esteem. I understand that your you are not a man of character and if I learn to accept that, this website will be a better place. :)
So here's a big hug for ramaDUNG, let's hope this gets something good going here!!!
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