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A LOSS FOR B&W


[+] serious ballot by Kev24
created Wed May 16, 07

well, i’m very sorry to report that herzog has decided that he will not be returning to best&worst under any circumstances for the foreseeable future.

as many of you know, herzog was one of the best contributors on this site. you may not have liked what he posted in ballots or comments, but few will deny that he is a very intelligent guy who stirred debate. and isn’t that the whole purpose of this site? to post things that make you think? that make you consider other views and other angles to current events?

before i continue, i want to point out that this is not in any way, shape or form a ballot meant to stir up controversy. nor is it a ballot meant to attack lcd or make him explain his position any further – he’s done that and it is what it is. so please no attacks on lcd. likewise, please don’t make any attacks on herzog. all i’m doing is telling you what his decision is.

many of you might not know this, but herzog and i did not get along at first. in fact we had some pretty intense “arguments.” but once i got to know him, i realized what a really good person he is – intelligent, thoughtful, funny and extremely kind. to his detractors, i'd like to ask – did you know this about him? probably not. most who attacked him just did so out of reflex – you could have just ignored his ballots and comments you know. instead you hounded him from ballot to ballot repeating the same attacks. when challenged to give direct and concrete evidence of his supposed racism, you never did. never could.

so once he and i developed a relationship, here’s what some of you said –

“you’re a kool aid drinker kevin – you’re being brainwashed.” then it became “wow kev, you and herzog must be butt buddies.” once neither of those attacks worked, it became “if you like him, then you’re a racist too.” bear in mind, herzog is not a racist. you might have known that if you took the time to deal with him directly.

you may not have liked his ballots, but you made a huge mistake --- you assumed that his ballots were a direct reflection on him and who he is. they’re not.

ask yourself this – is everything you post on here an accurate and full account of who you really are as a person? i doubt it.

so we lose a great contributor and a really all-around good guy and this site loses some of its former dynamic energy. as someone who has gotten to know herzog off this site, let me say that he is a very cool dude – someone i can trust, someone who gives thoughtful advice and someone who treats people with respect and courtesy. i for one am majorily bummed that he’s not coming back. if you think about it, i'm sure you feel the same way too.

his decision not to return is a major loss for this site
i hope he changes his mind


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COMMENTS:
can't stress this enough -- don't attack lcd on here and don't challenge him to explain his position. he's done that. and do not attack herzog -- if you have nothing worthwhile to say or if all you want to do is make a personal attack, then just move along to the next ballot.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 8:24am [+]

Voted : i hope he changes his mind
I sure hope he changes his mind :)
by socal_sweetie on Wed May 16, 07 9:25am [+]

About a hundred things came to mind when I read this, all of which violated your conditions.

All I will say is that its a disgraceful situation, and I hope he will be given the chance to return a.s.a.p
by kingAlfredTheGreat on Wed May 16, 07 9:28am [+]

^ he can return. he choses not to. he's a man of integrity and he made the decision not to return because to do so right now would vioalte his beliefs in justice and fairness.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 9:40am [+]

Voted : No loss, good riddance
Ha! He begs people not to criticise herzog, then he attacks herzog's "detractors" himself.

Nice one.

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's probably a duck.

You say he wasn't racist? OK then, call him something else, just so long as it adequately describes someone whose online mission over a 4-year period was to trawl the Net for stories that vilify muslims & disseminate them on this website.

The underlying message behind herzog's oh-so-reasonable words was invariably mean-spirited and divisive (did he think his constant barrage of finger-pointing at Islam would help draw the global community together?) and consequently I don't think this site is a worse place for his passing.

I miss gagoonies more, there was a flavour of honesty about his prejudice that was entirely lacking in herzog's sugar-coated islamophobia.
by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 10:05am [+]

where did i attack his detractors? pull out that text and post it here. where? there's a huge difference between an attack and an observation.

so go pull out the "attack" text.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:10am [+]

what i do notice is that you couldn't just not comment. if you didn't have anything to add but the usual baseless personal and viscious attacks, why comment at all? you can't help yourself, can you? i guess you thought you could make a baseless claim that i attacked his detractors, which then would justify your attack? won't wash. i'm calling you on this. post the text from my ballot that is the supposed attack on his detractors.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:19am [+]

Voted : I do not think herzog's refusal to return is a loss to B&W
Er... less of an observation and more of a litany of criticism, I think you'll find.

Face it fella, you're not impartial.

And for the record, I'll answer your criticism of herzog's detractors.

"...to his detractors, i'd like to ask – did you know this about him?"

- "Know this"? No, it's utterly subjective as to whether herzog was thoughtful, funny or kind. I for one emphatically disagree with all of those conjectures.

"...probably not. most who attacked him just did so out of reflex..."

And how precisely do you intend to prove that? Pure conjecture, based on your own wishful thinking.

" – you could have just ignored his ballots and comments you know."

I don't ignore people who encourage others to stereotype and hate others, based on nothing more than their ethnicity and/or religion. They're a disease, and I will stamp it out.

"...instead you hounded him from ballot to ballot repeating the same attacks."

Despite setting himself up as the great debater, he NEVER had the courtesy to respond to the question as to why he wasn't a coward for wholeheartedly supporting sending troops to war zones but flatly refusing to serve in the war he was promoting himself. Was his refusal to respond an admission of cowardice? I leave that for you to decide.

"...when challenged to give direct and concrete evidence of his supposed racism, you never did. never could."

Quack, quack!

And please, whoever removed it, leave my ballot choice in place this time. Or are you suggesting that people should not be allowed a dissenting vote?
by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 10:28am [+]

ha! those are not attacks. nice try, but it ain't going to fly. what you posted is an attack. did i name any names? no. did i single you out? no. you assumed it was about you.

so sorry bud, not one single thing i posted was an attack at all. it was pointing out fact -- and the facts you so conveniently support by coming on here and doing the exact thing i said his detractors did -- attack! thanks bud!

so nice try and i give you props for making an attempt, but nope -- i didn't attack anyone. you did though.

and i am having your choice removed. i don't want it on here. once again -- leave the ballot if you don't have anything but attacks to make. sorry bud!
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:32am [+]

can't stress this enough -- don't attack lcd on here and don't challenge him to explain his position. he's done that. and do not attack herzog -- if you have nothing worthwhile to say or if all you want to do is make a personal attack, then just move along to the next ballot.

by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 11:24am


did you even read this? so, like so many did to herzog, you came on here and decided to disregard my wishes -- if you have nothing worthwhile to say and can only make a personal attack, then just move along.

your comments will be deleted. sorry man. no hard feelings, but you read my ballot and you read my wishes and you decided you just couldn't resist one more attack. tough. either respect my wishes, or don't participate on my ballot. seems fair.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:34am [+]

O-K...

I'll leave you kids to it then.

by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 10:37am [+]

ahh, another dig. 039

don't be so hostile dungster. its time that we on b&w started stamping out the venom and hatred. my mistake was allowing choices, so i admit that was my fault. but like i said, i was pretty clear in my ballot that this is not a place for viscious attacks. doesn't mean this has to be a herzog love-fest ;) but i much prefer calm and rational debate, even if it is less than glowing about herzog.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:41am [+]

rama the ballot was just so we know that herzog won't be coming back, not to cause conflict. He did state that.
by socal_sweetie on Wed May 16, 07 10:45am [+]

look at this!

Wed May 16, 07 1:42pm Sent karma rating of : 5 to ramaDUNG
For the Ballot comment#1156378 @ Bestandworst.com.
- i seriously mean no hard feelings. say anything you want on the ballot, but not in the form of an attack. just be tactful.



Appeal Wed May 16, 07 1:39pm Received karma rating of : -5 from ramaDUNG
For the Ballot #114931 @ Bestandworst.com.
NOT A BALLOT - Sorry fella, this site is for exchange of opinions. This isn't a ballot.


before i even knew this guy sent me negative karma, like an ass i send him +5. can you believe this guy? it is a ballot buddy! you can post anytyhing you want --- except the usual bullshit attacks. how hard is that for you to undertand? if you came on and acted like a human being and not a rabid animal, fine. what a freak you are.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:51am [+]

you just proved me right dung. giving me neg karma was out of your rage and spite. tough. if you couldn't respect my wishes as the ballot maker and keep it clean and avoid viscious attacks, you should have made your own ballot. you may not like it, but the rules do apply to you too.

get lost. hater. and i read your other comments using the word "homo" and "poof."

so for all of your attacks on herzog, looks like you've got some discrimination issues of your own.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:54am [+]

matter of fact, let's expose your bigotry. so much for you saying herzog is a racist -- right homophobe?




rolls eyes)

OK Felix, I get the message.

If I ever feel like shagging a fella, I'll get in touch with you.

Now quit stalking me with your homo suggestions, goddamnit!

Fucking poof.

PS you don't give me negative karma, I don't give you negative karma. Is that a deal?
by ramaDUNG on Mon May 14, 07 6:53pm
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 10:55am [+]

Haha, you're scraping the barrel there.

It's no secret that I'll insult anyone in pretty much any way. So what?

In that ballot from which you have selectively quoted, Felix was implying that I harboured amorous feeling for herzog, so I returned the sentiment with interest. Get over it, if that's what it takes to offend him I'll use it. He clearly thinks it'll offend me.

Fuck you and your shit opinions, anyway. And fuck this drippy non-ballot.



by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 11:05am [+]

^ getting testy there. typical. are you a rageaholic? sorry dude, but when you're in the wrong, be a man and just admit it. and i'm not scraping the barrel -- you've been nailed and now you're looking bad. remember -- those in glass houses should not throw stones. i guess you're not as open and free minded as you like to pretend. food for thought.

039
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 11:09am [+]

Eh?

No, I *do* insult worthless people, all the time. A lot.

But I only small-minded & mean-spirited people though.

And their fawning pets.
by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 11:18am [+]

^ i love it when someone proves my case for me --

exhibit a --

i worte --

so once he and i developed a relationship, here’s what some of you said –

“you’re a kool aid drinker kevin – you’re being brainwashed.” then it became “wow kev, you and herzog must be butt buddies.” once neither of those attacks worked, it became “if you like him, then you’re a racist too.” bear in mind, herzog is not a racist. you might have known that if you took the time to deal with him directly.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 11:22am [+]

Voted : his decision not to return is a major loss for this site
Yup...
by MO_ on Wed May 16, 07 11:26am [+]

Voted : his decision not to return is a major loss for this site
Didn't agree with a great many things he posted, but he had the conviction of his views, a rare thing in this or any other world.
by Truthseeker013 on Wed May 16, 07 11:30am [+]

Bilge, kev24.

I've not had any dealings with you before you got all upset about this precious ballot of yours, so how can your last comment prove anything?
by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 11:30am [+]

sorry - I meant "drippy, weepy non-ballot", of course.
by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 11:31am [+]

I cant say I blame Herzog for saying away, everyone seems so bitter towards eachother on this site now, even im not here as much as I used to be for that very reason. Yes his anti Islam and anti black ballots were very tiresome but I never found him to be rude or nasty. Ive been here for some two and a half years now and most of the great users have gone, Tads, qui qui, mags, Cathexis and even steels not here too often now, does this tell us anything at all???
by minni_the_minx on Wed May 16, 07 12:07pm [+]

Bilge, kev24.

I've not had any dealings with you before you got all upset about this precious ballot of yours, so how can your last comment prove anything?
by ramaDUNG on Wed May 16, 07 2:30pm


^ so you really don't take the time to read ballots and comments before you launch in, do you? i suggest you read the ballot again and that comment you question one more time. proves what i said -- that if you get called on personal attacks on herzog, you just switch it to the person sticking up for him and call him/me his "butt buddy" or that he is my "master" and the attacks continue. gee, do you think maybe you have a problem controlling your temper? the days of unchallenged personal attacks are over on here. if you can't back them up with hard evidence, you're going to get challenged.

and now dealings with me? you have a very short memory.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 12:15pm [+]

I cant say I blame Herzog for saying away, everyone seems so bitter towards eachother on this site now, even im not here as much as I used to be for that very reason. Yes his anti Islam and anti black ballots were very tiresome but I never found him to be rude or nasty. Ive been here for some two and a half years now and most of the great users have gone, Tads, qui qui, mags, Cathexis and even steels not here too often now, does this tell us anything at all???
by minni_the_minx on Wed May 16, 07 3:07pm


^ yep. but they don't see it. they don't see that their endelss and baseless personal attacks and calling everyone cunt and whore and all this crap, is just too much now. way too much. but it's everyone else -- never, ever them. no. they're the good ones. not quite.
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 12:17pm [+]

Kev24

"he can return. he choses not to. he's a man of integrity and he made the decision not to return because to do so right now would vioalte his beliefs in justice and fairness."

Exactly why he CANT return. I was inferring with my comment that LCD had forced him to choose btween his principles and his participation on this site, a non-choice in reality.

You could probably argue that LCD owes Herzog an apology before he returns, but he should certainly unban him and give him back maintainer status. An apology is unlikely, but at least do the right thing and rectify the mistake.
by kingAlfredTheGreat on Wed May 16, 07 12:22pm [+]

Kev24

"he can return. he choses not to. he's a man of integrity and he made the decision not to return because to do so right now would vioalte his beliefs in justice and fairness."

Exactly why he CANT return. I was inferring with my comment that LCD had forced him to choose btween his principles and his participation on this site, a non-choice in reality.

You could probably argue that LCD owes Herzog an apology before he returns, but he should certainly unban him and give him back maintainer status. An apology is unlikely, but at least do the right thing and rectify the mistake.
by kingAlfredTheGreat on Wed May 16, 07 12:22pm [+]

^ Geez, we heard you the first time. :o)
by britvic55 on Wed May 16, 07 12:26pm [+]

I mean seriously, no offence to Cranky, but its getting a bit sad the way he keeps posting anti-republican ballots etc when their is no one to disagree with him.

I'll play the role of the "conservative" on some issues, but I dont have much interest in partisan American politics, something Herzog would have been happy to talk about all day. I cant believe Cranky and other liberal users actually get much satisfaction out of presenting ballots to a site full of liberal yes men.
by kingAlfredTheGreat on Wed May 16, 07 12:27pm [+]

Just out of curiousity, does anyone know if Herzog really did try to censor cranky through karma bombing? Herzog always said he had nothing to do with it.
by skylab on Wed May 16, 07 4:39pm [+]

"walks like a duck talks like a duck" islamaphobia? haha, wow, coming from you that is f'ing hilarious. Islam is a religion, and that being the case, you are in NO way better than he is with all your anti christian rhetorich.

Someone refresh my memory, when was the last Christian suicide bomber who walked onto a bus loaded with young children? I'm having trouble remembering that, but I am having no problem remember two instances where Muslims did that.

I don't really give a fuck what their ethnic background is, when you say Muslim it says they are Islamic, it doesn't say shit about their race.
by jappy on Wed May 16, 07 7:11pm [+]

no skylab, it's not true. check out ballot ballot #93710
by Kev24 on Wed May 16, 07 9:09pm [+]

Voted : i hope he changes his mind
It's like a death in the B&W family. It's too bad LCD, DUNG, Cranky, and all of the other Herzog haters aren't mature enough to attend the funeral and pay their respects to such a great user.
by mysticalknight on Thu May 17, 07 2:47am [+]

Why? I don't respect him.
by ramaDUNG on Thu May 17, 07 10:39am [+]

^ i distinctly recall you telling me and him that you would respect us both in the morning. another lie? 057
by Kev24 on Thu May 17, 07 3:41pm [+]

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