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COMMENTS:
Voted : other, see comment
This happened to me when i was 12, i was shocked but my adopted dad wasn't ever there much so it's not like i had a dad either way....and my dad i grew to concider my dad is not much of a dad. My mom does know his name though and ironically it's Ron Jones...sounds like she just pulled that name out of a hat! So i learned when i was 12 that i was a half sister to all my younger siblings and never met (and they've all argued at any ideas i had of even LOOKING for my real dad) my real father who had blonde hair and blue eyes and looked exactly like me, my mom has dark brown hair and brown eyes. I don't think he even knew my mom was pregnant...because it was a one night stand. I missed out on the father daughter bond big time, my "dad" has never bonded, i mean we get a long ok but he's never even said "i love you" in my lifetime that i remember and i'd remember! That's my story, sorry it's long! But i am jealous that the person in your description has a good relationship with their "dad"!
Oops i meant to vote for the last one (this has happened to me)
Voted : other, see comment
The good would outweigh the bad.
interestingly enough, I was eveavesdropping on a conversation one day, and a guy told his friend that when his mom was 16, she was drunk at a party and had sex with a guy and became pregnant with him. But she never even knew his name. I thought that was sad. Families just seem to be breaking up, if you have a kid, you should give your kid lots of love.
by aya on Fri May 18, 07 1:46pm
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Voted : That would SUCK!
Especially if I had a close relationship with my dad.
Voted : other, see comment
That would at least explain why I am so different then the rest of my family lol.
Voted : other, see comment
She did however, remember his name, size of genitalia and that he was a horrid drunk that wanted to molest cats. My mother got full custody of me and remarried later. I never felt lost or without something, I am full and complete.
Voted : I'd be neutral.
water under the bridge at this point in my life. If my "dad" raised me as his daughter - he would still be my Dad to me. Biological relationships are over-rated unless they are accompanied by emotional contact.
Voted : other, see comment
While it's not good, I guess it's better than being the product of a "three dog night"...
When my daughter was 15, she had a friend in school who said that she was the product of a date rape. Why on earth would the child's mother tell her that, even if it is true?
^ Children deserve to know the truth... I am sure the daughter would feel lucky to have such a devoted mother that decided to keep her. I mean even at 15 you can understand human nature.
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