IS ONE OF US CRAZY?

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IS ONE OF US CRAZY?


[+] serious ballot by forgetmenot
ACTIVE Thu Jul 05, 07 - Fri Jul 04, 08

Please listen to this argument my boyfriend and I had and tell me what I should have done or said. Our discussions leave me feeling like my brain has been scrambled like an egg.

He: My friend is going to mate her dog. She is going to mate the dog with the dog’s grandfather. (Then he pauses)
Me: (Joking) that’s little like dog incest, isn't it?
He. Yeah, I guess it is, except the grandfather is dead.
Me: What?
He: He’s dead. She is going to have the dog artificially inseminated with its sperm. It’s been kept in storage
Me: I wish you had told me the whole thing. I really thought she was going to physically mate the dog with its grandfather. I don’t like being dangled along, having different parts of what you are saying revealed a little at a time. I’d rather hear the whole thing.
He: I did not say anything wrong. YOU were wrong. It is YOU who should have asked ME questions about what I said. You should have asked me if the mating was going to take place with a living or dead dog.
Me: I’m supposed to ask you if she’s mating it with a dead dog? Nobody would think they are supposed to ask that. How would I ever assume from what you told me that the mating was talking place by artificial insemination at all?

You are crazy
He is crazy
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Please add comments
Sounds like he's 'gaslighting' you -- unhealthy :-(


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COMMENTS:
He's a lousy communicator, like me. I drive people nuts that way too.
by nuckinfutz on Thu Jul 05, 07 9:35pm [+]

But I don't try to cover up the fact that I am a lousy communicator by blaming it on the listener for not making crazy guesses about the story.
by nuckinfutz on Thu Jul 05, 07 10:02pm [+]

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^ What the Wise Man said.
by Truthseeker013 on Fri Jul 06, 07 5:23am [+]

Voted : Sounds like he's 'gaslighting' you -- unhealthy :-(
he's setting you up and it sounds like an extremely unpleasant game to me - especially if the conversation turns mean. If conversations like this continues, i'd be giving serious consideration to quitting the game for good. (of course i speak now with the hindsight of many years.....)
by lightreaper on Fri Jul 06, 07 2:17pm [+]

He sounds just like my ex-husband.
by RunsWithScissors on Sun Jul 08, 07 6:13am [+]






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