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[+] serious ballot by Kev24
created Sat Aug 11, 07

i know this girl who has a severe mental illness. she's and admitted bi-polar and suffers from paranoia too.

anyway she asked me recently why no on wanted to be around her. i was going to sugar coat it and lie and tell her that wasn't true. but something told me that a soft version of the truth was better.

what she does is, when ever she's going to make any kind of statement or ask a question, she literally opens it with stuff like "o.k, don't hit me or anything, but, blah, blah" or else she'll preface everything with working in like she's a victim like "okay, don't scream at me like you always do, but, blah, blah, blah."

the thing is, no one is after her, no one screams at her, no one yells, nothing. so anyway, we sort of told her that in fact, it's not eveyone else with the issue, its her.

we did it very calmly and non-judgmentally, but the fact is she needed to hear the truth cuz her life is a total mess and she makes it that way.


is it better to like to someone like that, or is it better to be honest and hopefully help them in some way?

lie to them and don't worry cuz it's their life
be honest and hopefully help them
i'll comment below

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COMMENTS:
Voted : be honest and hopefully help them
better to be honest
by mojo on Sat Aug 11, 07 1:23pm [+]

Voted : be honest and hopefully help them
^I agree
by larrynelmira on Sat Aug 11, 07 2:27pm [+]

Voted : be honest and hopefully help them
Honest in a nice way.
by skylab on Sat Aug 11, 07 3:03pm [+]

Voted : be honest and hopefully help them
"Sugarcoat" the truth to make it more "palatable...
by thesoothsayer on Sat Aug 11, 07 3:08pm [+]

Voted : i'll comment below
i usually walk in the other direction.
by ABC on Sat Aug 11, 07 4:58pm [+]

Tell her how it is, mate. Anything else isn't doing her any favours.
by britvic55 on Sat Aug 11, 07 6:49pm [+]

Voted : be honest and hopefully help them
Help them, but be honest...so sugar coat a little, but honesty is the best policy, so kindly be honest :)
by socal_sweetie on Tue Aug 21, 07 11:45am [+]

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