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Actually I would say she lacks social skills and has been sheltered for a while but I wouldn't say she's racist.
She probably was wondered why you mentioned stopping for a watermelon out of the blue. She probably thought you were racist.
I didn't say stopping for watermelon, she did
Voted : racist
You didn't make any connections between watermelons and blacks. SHE did.
Voted : lack of social skills
Probably
Voted : out of touch with reality
You should have mentioned how great it goes with fried chicken. No big deal. I guess that makes me a racist for enjoying this at a picnic too.
^ no, I don't think it does, I don't know whats going on with my cousin, she won't even talk about it now, only that she was so embarrassed, which I probably would be too if I jumped up and hid in the car just because I said watermelon. We had to leave shortly after because she wouldn't go back to the reception
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I'd just call it a brain fart. Myself, if I'd been there to hear it, I wouldn't have even blinked at the statement. But that's me. I have had an incident involving watermelon, when I was at the Naval Academy, from a third-year middie. He got a watermelon hat to wear back to his rack for his trouble. I was insulted, because I knew his comment was directed at me personally, with malice aforethought. I don't feel that in her comment, and I take her unwillingness to comment afterward as being borne of embarrassment.
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What Truth said. And she's not unlike a lot of folks who identify as "white." They're apprehensive and anxious in certain interracial environments in which they want to both enjoy themselves while not saying anything which might offend somebody. Lots of people like watermelon, and it was no doubt just an innocent comment based upon a craving. And what Beelz said is true too, I love all the foods I associate with "the South," watermelon (especially the yellow meated variety), fried chicken, collard/turnip/mustard greens w/ hamhocks, grits, even chitlins. (although, I'd never tried chitlins until I was a grown man). They're all lare'ahpen good.
Never mind, I misread the ballot question.
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