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IS THIS OVERLY SENSITIVE OR SIGN OF RACISM?

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IS THIS OVERLY SENSITIVE OR SIGN OF RACISM?


[+] ballot by larrynelmira
ACTIVE Tue Aug 14, 07 - Wed Aug 13, 08

The other ballot I just made about racism brought this to mind.

A few months ago I attended a wedding, ( I was between women at the time: (, not being desperate but did not want to attend by myself} I asked one of my cousins who is very shy, kind of sheltered from the world to go with me.

To make along story short, the wedding was for an interracial couple the bride’s family was black the groom’s family was white.

At the reception, my cousin and I were talking and she said “on the way home can we stop and get a watermelon,” no one gave it a thought, but my cousin jumped up, and ran to the car, I asked what was wrong, her answer, “I said watermelon”
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I just couldn’t believe she thought the word watermelon in the context that she used it, was racist.

What’s up with my cousin, would you call her out of touch with reality, sheltered, lack of social skills, shy or racist?

I never thought of her as racist, she never showed one indication to me of that, but in her mind does she associate watermelon with blacks in a racist way, by saying the word she thought she showed that part of herself or is she as square as the watermelons in that picture?

I don’t know how to read her what you think?

out of touch with reality
sheltered
lack of social skills
shy
square as the watermelons in that picture
racist
I don't know and I don't care.
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COMMENTS:
Actually I would say she lacks social skills and has been sheltered for a while but I wouldn't say she's racist.
by Warden on Tue Aug 14, 07 3:38pm [+]

She probably was wondered why you mentioned stopping for a watermelon out of the blue. She probably thought you were racist.
by ClosetIguana on Tue Aug 14, 07 3:53pm [+]

I didn't say stopping for watermelon, she did
by larrynelmira on Tue Aug 14, 07 3:56pm [+]

Voted : racist
You didn't make any connections between watermelons and blacks. SHE did.
by nuckinfutz on Tue Aug 14, 07 4:19pm [+]

Voted : lack of social skills
Probably
by skylab on Tue Aug 14, 07 4:55pm [+]

Voted : out of touch with reality
You should have mentioned how great it goes with fried chicken.

No big deal. I guess that makes me a racist for enjoying this at a picnic too.
by _Beelzebubba on Tue Aug 14, 07 5:47pm [+]

^ no, I don't think it does, I don't know whats going on with my cousin, she won't even talk about it now, only that she was so embarrassed, which I probably would be too if I jumped up and hid in the car just because I said watermelon. We had to leave shortly after because she wouldn't go back to the reception
by larrynelmira on Tue Aug 14, 07 5:53pm [+]

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I'd just call it a brain fart. Myself, if I'd been there to hear it, I wouldn't have even blinked at the statement. But that's me. I have had an incident involving watermelon, when I was at the Naval Academy, from a third-year middie. He got a watermelon hat to wear back to his rack for his trouble. I was insulted, because I knew his comment was directed at me personally, with malice aforethought. I don't feel that in her comment, and I take her unwillingness to comment afterward as being borne of embarrassment.
by Truthseeker013 on Tue Aug 14, 07 6:53pm [+]

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What Truth said. And she's not unlike a lot of folks who identify as "white." They're apprehensive and anxious in certain interracial environments in which they want to both enjoy themselves while not saying anything which might offend somebody. Lots of people like watermelon, and it was no doubt just an innocent comment based upon a craving. And what Beelz said is true too, I love all the foods I associate with "the South," watermelon (especially the yellow meated variety), fried chicken, collard/turnip/mustard greens w/ hamhocks, grits, even chitlins. (although, I'd never tried chitlins until I was a grown man). They're all lare'ahpen good.
by contragrain on Tue Aug 14, 07 8:28pm [+]

Never mind, I misread the ballot question.
by nuckinfutz on Tue Aug 14, 07 11:52pm [+]

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