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[+] serious ballot by Kev24
created Sun Sep 02, 07

i had a few words with a user over the last couple of days and in one of his recent comments he said something like "if i were friends with someone, i wouldn't go calling them a fucking dick behind their backs."


he's right -- if you're friends with someone. the history is that i did say that about another user, but then immediately corrected it and said "i should have said he can be a dick, but then again, so can i." so this other user is now trying to use that exchange of a total of 3 short pm's as some kind of weapon against me. fact is, its this guy that goes around trash talking people and now tries to project that onto me. won't work.

but the real question is, this guy tries to put it out there that it's back stabbing a friend and tries to make out that who i have on my favorites list must equate to friendship. huh? in my opinion it's not at all.

to me, friends are people you know. you know them in real life, know their name, where the live, what they do for a living, their significant others, the foods they like, the types of movies they like, stuff like that.

to call a surface-level cyber relationship a friendship strikes me as odd.

sure, there are a few guys from here that i know well and they know me. some more than others and some on a very personal level. that more resembles a friendship.

but do people actually consider anonymous people thier friends? i mean if you know a person only by some sreen name, how is that any kind of friendship? is it?

sure, we can get along on here and be pleasant and exchage a few pm's, but how on earth can any of us call anonymous people our friends?


before you answer, just consider that i realize that a cyber friendship can move off the web or can at least become stronger on the web. i'm not at all devaluating a cyber friendship -- but none the less, peeps, you have to know something more than a person's screen name to call them friend.

agree or no?

i agree. anonymous cyber relationships are not friendships
i disagree. everyone i meet on line is my friend
you can have a form of frienship, but unless you know them very well, they are just "cyber buds
i'll comment below

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COMMENTS:
i also want to point out that they guy i said can be a dick, can be 112 but he is also someone i respect and who i find to be a good person. but, i don't know his name, i have no clue where he lives, i have no idea if he's fat, short, thin, tall. i have no idea what books he reads, what movies he likes, where his last vacation was, key stuff like that.

so how can anyone have a friendship if that's the case? hope i'm making my point clear
by Kev24 on Sun Sep 02, 07 7:41am [+]

Voted : you can have a form of frienship, but unless you know them very well, they are just "cyber buds
people sensitivo, because they REALLY not know where you get you remark, what you really think. I agree you, nobody knows nobody here, except you meet offline. That sometimes risky behaviour, everybody know that. You got image to put forward, Kev24? You not mean guy. Anybody read/comprende you comments know that. No worry.
by ira_lee_pistimov on Sun Sep 02, 07 8:56am [+]

Hey K. A,
Haven’t we all said something to someone that latter we have regretted?
Saying something in the heat of a moment is part of life. I mean we have all said the words “I could kill you” but we really don’t mean it. Well, at least I hope you don’t.
I try to remember the old saying… The toes you step on today may be connected to the ass you may have to kiss tomorrow.

by UncleRandy on Sun Sep 02, 07 1:53pm [+]

Is this about Noxious, or about friends in general? If you said that you shouldn't have said it, then everything is fine.
by aya on Sun Sep 02, 07 1:56pm [+]

but it's usually better to say you were wrong right away.
by aya on Sun Sep 02, 07 1:57pm [+]

What's going on here? Kev and I are fine. We are pals. Moving right along. 109
by FiddleFaddleOnLSD on Sun Sep 02, 07 3:38pm [+]

"Fiddle is the user kev called a "fucking dick" in my PM box. If you mean an hour later and after the reply i made questioning kev's intentions with that PM, I suppose he "immediately corrected" it. More like covering his own ass but that's my opinion."


^ still full of shit i see. no dude, you're pissed because i questioned the sexual comments you're making to larry so to be spiteful noxiousspore you tried to insinuate somethinig and now that it's in the open, you're trying to cover your ass and back track.

the ballot in question, fiddle and i did have a bit of heated exchange. i sent him a 0 rating with the comment "you can be a real asshole sometimes."

fiddle referenced that comment in the ballot.

fiddle knows about the pm i sent to you and knows that i said in a later pm "i should say "can be a dick sometimes, but then again, so can i."

the "correction" as you call it that came an hour later, is because you sent me a pm on my fave list in reply to my pm at 8:37. i present the evidence below. your pm came in at 8:37. this is it --

hmmm If I become a fucking dick, could you put me on the top of ur faves list too....
NoxiousSpore (bestandworst.com) on 8:37pm Aug 27, 2007 | ZAP


my reply to your 8:37pm private message went out at 8:56, which is 19 minutes later, not an hour. and here it is --

faves ( sent to NoxiousSpore on Aug 27, 2007 8:56pm )
ahh so you think that a fave list is the be all and end all huh? i should have said that fiddle can be a fucking dick. but then again, so can i ;)


just keep digging yourself in noxious. but be careful my friend. r u sure you haven't gone to people and talked about users behind their backs? or did you in fact tell another user to keep up the attacks on people and encourage that user to keep causing trouble. and did you or did you not list names of people in your pm's to that user, me being one of them on the list, that you wanted to see attacked?

think before you reply. sorry bud, but you have a history of pulling this shit.

and as fiddle says, tough luck for you, cuz he and i are just fine. care to keep this going? i'm just getting started.


and to keep things further in perspective, here's the actual ballot that was involved in all this and the comment noxious made to fiddle is the one i clicked on to vent to noxious with one simple comment. but he leaves all that out. conveniently for him. check it out -- ballot #117386
by Kev24 on Sun Sep 02, 07 4:42pm [+]

feel the love noxious 118
by FiddleFaddleOnLSD on Sun Sep 02, 07 4:53pm [+]

Voted : i agree. anonymous cyber relationships are not friendships
But, through those anonymous relationships, I have made several true friends, in this group and in others.
by Truthseeker013 on Sun Sep 02, 07 4:59pm [+]

Voted : you can have a form of frienship, but unless you know them very well, they are just "cyber buds
*hides from all the drama*104

Now kiss and make up, all of you. I demand peace and happiness throughout!058

*sprinkles faerie dust all over the place*MAG_roygbiv

MAG_rofl
by socal_sweetie on Sun Sep 02, 07 5:28pm [+]

^YEAH!! KISS AND MAKE UP YOU GUYS!! KISS AND MAKE UP (SHOUTS)
by aya on Sun Sep 02, 07 5:46pm [+]

^ MAG_rofl
by socal_sweetie on Sun Sep 02, 07 8:39pm [+]

^ deperation? yep. get real. _Beelzebubba_jackass
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 7:09am [+]

and why highlight my quotes when everyone can read them and well pretty much agrees with them? have a great day pal o'mine! _Beelzebubba_jackass
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 7:10am [+]

Since you are my friend and bud in real life, call me on my cell and we'll go out to the bar to have some scotch and catch up on old times.

As for the rest of your comment,
by NoxiousSpore on Sun Sep 02, 07 9:31pm


^ oh yeah, i don't think so. you're not the type i would know in real life. sorry. just a fact.
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 10:30am [+]

muy bien, ninos! now let get this stfu all behind us,I like what it is socal and aya say. besame! besame mucho!
by ira_lee_pistimov on Mon Sep 03, 07 11:40am [+]

stuf or stfu? behind us? cool
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 11:41am [+]

^is ironic I spell "stuff" stfu, no? I mean to say, "now let get all this stuff behind us!" I laughing at myself now. lo siento you chicos are have problemas. Be nice one another. Kiss make up good place start. MAG_rofl
by ira_lee_pistimov on Mon Sep 03, 07 11:44am [+]

Voted : i'll comment below
You ask me, and I know you not ask, but I answer anyway. Is true we all be "cyber-buds" only, but the person same wherever this person go. So, you nice to "cyberbuds?" You probably nice to you real friends. Unless, as you say, you dehumanize peoples on internet so to make fun o ridicule. Not me! I make fun myself. Este El Camino caminar, imo. The internet is el espejo de real life. No real life, solamente el espejo, but most things look same in el espejo.
by ira_lee_pistimov on Mon Sep 03, 07 12:13pm [+]

^ right. but the point is, this one guy decided to try and use a one time venting pm to cause problems. and he seems unable to distinguish between friends and cyber aquaintenances. there's a huge difference. his approach was that i talked shit about this one guy. no. i vented and made a one time comment. this other guy knew about it. the main point is people you can't trust. people who make a mountain out of a mole hill. he's the one with the issue. not me. but friends? no. sorry. not the case. we're all just anonymous screen names. nothing more for the most part. those that we move it beyond the net, that's one thing. but how often does that happen? i can tell you that on here, with maybe 3-4 guys. that's it.
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 1:04pm [+]

^ uhh, no. mission aborted. dude, i remember you now. insecure. whiney. always needy. you're so full of shit it's not funny. i gave you sound advice on your love life and all you did was shit on me with your bitching and moaning. should i share that?

so no, you didn't make me squirm at all. you're pathetic. you were then and you are now. i could so let it be known what a total loser you are, but i have morals, unlike you. "wah' wah. we went for mexican food and he was so cold and distant from me." cux you're a fucking looooser!
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 1:57pm [+]

yeah, like these e-mails from you. "kev, you're so confident that it's like you're so obnoxious." "wah, wah, my life sucks. guys don't like me. guys don't want me. wah, wah, wah."


yeah sport, cuz you're a fat fuck with a tiny dick and nooooo life! damn! dude, get help. for fuck sake, you need to get a grip or you're going to be that 300 pound fatty with bad skin, horrible breath and a personality mother theresa would shun.


^ there. want me to be more brutally honest?
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 2:00pm [+]

Voted : you can have a form of frienship, but unless you know them very well, they are just "cyber buds

IMO. But you can get to know a person very well, even though s/he might be a 'cyber bud' to begin with. This is the case with one my very best friends who lives on the other side of the planet (you know you you are). Caz loves ya, baby 060
by mojo on Mon Sep 03, 07 3:22pm [+]

^ true and i know it from first hand experience. but first criteria is the person has to be sane. totally sane. not every spore is. 023
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 3:38pm [+]

^ oh, now i think you're over stating your influence over me cuz you have none. shitting a brick? hardly. you're a very sensitive girl, aren't you. 041

don't be a putz. you're the insecure and bitter guy you always were. and by the way einstein, you're actually not saying anything. hmmmm. 023
by Kev24 on Mon Sep 03, 07 6:35pm [+]

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