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Voted : Yes, I am such a person.
I've known lots of people who have admired and respected me, but for some intangible reason have found me difficult to work with or be with. People who are friendly with me always avoid taking me places like parties, etc. if they can.
My anti-charisma affects almost everyone I interact with, it affects people online as well as in RL. I always wondered how the 2% who don't seem affected by it are different from the 98% who are.
^ you give yourself too much credit.
hope you don't take offense, none intended. but if people can't stand you maybe they are not "admiring and respecting you" maybe they are just tolerating you.
just being honest. hey nobody likes me but I don't ponder how good, intelligent or attractive I am.
by LCD on Tue Sep 16, 08 9:33pm
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Never said I thought I was attractive.
But I tend to think that I'm decent to others and that I'm fairly intelligent. Sorry if you disagree.
Voted : Yes, I am such a person.
I suffered with this for years. I'm not weird and I dont do bazare things. I'm ok looking I guess. People think I am NOT stupid. But when people give parties or people want a night on the town, I'm not asked to join.
My SO says it is because I talk about things at a different level than most and people don't mesh with me. Not a superior level, just different.
I don't gossip and I could not care less about other people's kids and family stuff. That's what most girls talk about. I like to talk about politics and science and esoteric stuff and new age stuff. Not ONE person I talked to knew about the LHC (large hadron collider)! But when I infrequently happen to talk about family stuff, like my sister or her husband or her kid, then people open up to me.
I kind of understnad that what I like to talk about doesn't attract the interest of too many gals. And guys seem to shy away because I don't talk about what they expect gals to talk about. They don't know what to do with mep--where to pigeon hole me.
I can so relate forgetmenot. I'm a complicated person, and my thoughts are all over the place. This gives anyone who tries to pigeonhole me a very hard time. Such people are often visibly frustrated as they try to do so.
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Most of my friends only want to talk about sports, which I like too but there are other things in the universe, among my old high school friends especially, sports is the about the only thing we have in common anymore, when I mention, politics, science and such, they are turned off, I find people moving a way from me at parties when I talk about such things.
It's kinda sad when I think about it, I have very little in common with people I used to consider my best friends.
Voted : Yes, I know someone like this.
i do know someone. good guy, very attractive, smart, talented. but he's too much of a downer. he's too humble. too "poor me" type of an attitude. people pick up on that and want to avoid him. he thinks no one likes him and because of that he tries too hard and seems almost pathetic. i guess its almost like he is too sensitive. who wants to be around that? people have crap going on and don't need to always be thinking about it and being around him makes you sort of want to slit your wrists. its a shame cuz he is a good guy.
Voted : Yes, I know someone like this.
And, forgetmenot and nuck - NO. I don't keep negative people in my inboxes.
People like this aren't even necessarily negative.
Voted : Yes, I know someone like this.
My company hired a guy like this. He never made it past probation. He was a good guy to a point. But so negative.
thats the thing. negative people turn others off. i don't think nuck is negative. i'm just saying from my perspective, downers make people flee.
I have known many. Most of them get the wrong idea about me though so I don't hang with them but mostly because they don't wanna hang with me.
Just a video of me sittin' here................................................................so, yeah that's it, bye
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What an asshole I am. Should have realized that 6 years ago.
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britvic55 from bestandworst.com -
comment : ^^ Annnnd females wouldn't?? lol ...
