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SWEDISH PARENTS KEEP 2-YEAR-OLD'S GENDER SECRET

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A couple of Swedish parents have stirred up debate in the country by refusing to reveal whether their two-and-a-half-year-old child is a boy or a girl.

Pop's parents, both 24, made a decision when their baby was born to keep Pop's sex a secret. Aside from a select few - those who have changed the child's diaper - nobody knows Pop's gender; if anyone enquires, Pop's parents simply say they don't disclose this information.

In an interview with newspaper Svenska Dagbladet back in March, the parents were quoted saying their decision was rooted in the feminist philosophy that gender is a social construction.

"We want Pop to grow up more freely and avoid being forced into a specific gender mould from the outset," Pop's mother said. "It's cruel to bring a child into the world with a blue or pink stamp on their forehead."

With a second child on the way, Pop's parents have no plans to change what they see as a winning formula. As for Pop, they say they will only reveal the child's sex when Pop thinks it's time.

What do you guys think?

At some point, Pop is going to play I'll show you mine if you show me yours, then the secret is out.
It's not going to be pink and blue, more like black and blue when this kid is in school.
The kid is too young to decide anything on its own.
Someone, please rescue the kid from its crazy parents.
Good for them, it's wonderful to see a family allowing their child to figure out things early on.
so what?
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Voted : Someone, please rescue the kid from its crazy parents.
Can't tell you how scary it was, seeing this story. Reminds me all too much of my own Parental Units.
It wont be totally effective in eliminating gender bias in Pop's life because Pop will still see how differently females are treated from males. Pop is going to see that one gender is the "haves" and one gender is the "have nots, and that any true success the have nots experience is going to be considered detrimental to the haves, unless, of course, the haves take credit for the success.
Voted : Someone, please rescue the kid from its crazy parents.
"..their decision was rooted in the feminist philosophy that gender is a social construction"

Did the parents ever pick up a biology book?

Fine and dandy if they want to keep their kids from the evils of the world. But one day, this kid is going to get quite a shock when he/she enters the real world. Hiding things never really solves much.





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