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bragging are we?
by LCD on Sat Mar 27, 04 4:40pm
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Hmmm thats nice for you. My girlfriend dumped me last week.
by RobL on Sat Mar 27, 04 4:46pm
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Don't get married. Find a woman you hate and buy her a house.
No, I'd rather want someone who's horrendously ugly and treats me like shit. Unfortunately I'm with a gorgeous girl who treats me great. Life throws you a curveball sometimes.
either that or a bunch of ugly women would be fine
OK, LCD, maybe I am bragging a little. But it's all true. But the reason I posted this question is because I am curious about what others want. I remember going through a phase when I was in my late teens when the kind of relationship I have now wasn't what I wanted. At that point in my life this type of relationship would have made me miserable.
"At that point in my life this type of relationship would have made me miserable." Er, how?
by RobL on Sun Mar 28, 04 4:53pm
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RobL -- Let's just say that I had a few negative preconceived ideas about men are based on a couple of unpleasant early experiences. I stopped trusting people, so I didn't want to get close to anyone.
Fair enough, sorry :) I still think you're bragging though!
by RobL on Tue Mar 30, 04 1:15pm
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i was married, and we were close without being particularly intimate, outside of the sex, we argued all the time, which was fun but got old. now were divorced and we still see each other and argue a lot, but without any baggage or sex.i never want another committed relationship, i felt like half a person and like i was in prison, and he wasnt the least bit possesive or anything, i just hated the whole idea of marriage and the "institutional" aspect to it, so borrrring and un-fun...shacking up is exciting, however, because it's still considered kind of "immoral" or illicit or something. i admire other some other people's marriages, but it isnt for me, to quote john cougar mellancamp, i want someone to love me, and then go away
You actually make me feel physically sick ... Sad, Sad, SAD ballot!
As a man, I would be happy in a committed monogamous relationship with a lady who is incredibly attractive if (1.) we were equals and (2.) we were physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually compatible. The "bottom line" here is "NO compatibility, NO relationship!" In fact, I would be considerably uncomfortable if I were treated like royalty. I just want to be treated like a human being. Happiness is what we make for ourselves and then share with others about whom we truly care.
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