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i'm for it because some people are horrible parents and need their children taken away
Thanks so much for the comments, but I was asking this question in general because I have family members who decided to adopt children or take in foster children. Then, some years later (almost ten), they received a document from the courts stating that the child is to go back to the biological mother or the biological father. Personally, I do not think that is fair because this allows biological parents to lift themselves of their responsibility and take it on when they want to. I also feel like the parents that adopted the child should be compensated for all their time, money, and energy that they put into the child and the development of a relationship with that child, even though, their doings were sincere.
P.S. I just wonder what the future take on that will be because in most cases, when the biological parent decides that he/she wants their child back, custody is awarded to them.
Adoption can be a child's only chance at a normal life if his biological parents aren't fit to be raising him. If the bio parents plan on straightening their lives out and getting their child back eventually, they should tell this to the adoptive parents, because once the child and his new parents have grown to love each other like a real family, it can be devastating to both parties if the biological parents try to take them back. That is not fair. If the bio 'rents decide they're ready to take the kid back, they should not be alloed to. Rather, they should be given some sort of visitation right, or partial custody or something. No child should be severed from a loving family that is the only real family he's ever known. Biological parents sometimes fail to take the other parties' feelings into consideration. Selfishness is common in them. Therefore the adoptive parents should not have to be reimbursed, because that kid should not have to be taken away from them to begin with.
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