private : relationship : CAN MY EX-GIRLFRIEND GO SUCK IT? [+] ballot by xxxxxxxx created Tue May 31, 05 So here's the story: Less than two weeks ago, my then-girlfriend (we'll call her Heidi, especially since it's her name) suddenly got all pissed at me because I mentioned to a friend some of the more intimate stuff we've done (and it's not like we even had sex). Now in the previous relationship I had, my last girlfriend and I would mention stuff like that all the time to friends, and it'd be no big deal, so that was kind of ingrained in me. So she said a couple of nasty things to me, and it really hurt, so I told her some of the problems I've had with her, problems which I'll mention right here. First, she would never show appreciation for me. I'd never get anything more than a "Thanks" with little emotion when I'd compliment her or give her something. Valentine's Day was the epitome of this -- I took her out to her favorite restaurant for dinner, bought her ALL SORTS of her favorite things and wrote a two-page note that I put inside a card that told her how special I thought she was and how I feel about her -- no emotion; just "Thanks." And this wasn't an uncommon occurance either -- she would never act like she cared. Also, we could only see each other alone for a couple hours every couple weeks. So when that span of a couple hours came up, she said that she couldn't because she told someone else she was going to hang out with them, and that she's "first-come, first-serve." Now I don't give a fuck if she's first-com first-serve or not. I'm her boyfriend; I should have some sort of priority here, especially since she and I hardly get to see each other anyway and she sees this friend on like an everyday basis. I asked her if she even THOUGHT of the fact that we could only see each other alone during that time and she said she did. It showed me what kind of priority I was to her (nil). On top of that, she and a bunch of friends of ours went to see Green Day in concert a couple weeks back -- she never asked if I wanted to come. I'd have bought my own ticket just like them, and I'd have gone with them, but they never invited me along and I didn't want to intrude. I'd have loved to have gone. She didn't invite me. Shows how much she cared about the relationship. So I brought these points up with her, and she really couldn't defend herself. I totally turned the tables on the argument and finally said a lot of shit that I should've said earlier, but hindsight's 20/20. So a couple days passed, and I was still upset, and she was still upset with me for telling someone that we were somewhat intimate (I can't keep it bottled up -- I'm not that type of person), despite the fact that I treated her like fuckin' royalty for six months. Even two friends of hers (one the friend I referred to earlier; the other now a former friend of hers) BOTH said during the relationship that not only did I give 95% of the effort in it, but I was also TOO GOOD FOR HER. Yet I stayed. So two days after the argument we were still upset and I knew it wasn't going to work so I called it off and she agreed. Three days later, my heart overwhelmed myself and I told her in a passionate e-mail that I wanted her back. I don't know why, but I did, and after the way I treated her, I deserved her back. It was the least she could've done (though in hindsight, looking at the effort she's made and the dates she's cancelled, she always did the least she could do). She said she wanted me back, but she wasn't sure how she felt and for whatever stupidass reason was still pissed about the telling someone about the intimate stuff. Fuckin' get over it! So I waited and waited and waited, and then finally I e-mailed her and said that I figured she didn't want me anymore and I was moving on, and only then did she say that she didn't want a relationship anymore (which is good because I'm interested in other people now). I was sick of her dicking around anyway -- she wasn't going to give me what I needed in a relationship anyway. Hell she hardly cared about this relationship anyway. Can she just go suck it now? Yes she can. No, she wouldn't anyway. she's got my permission Maybe for $5 Ballot #74421 : SEE RESULTS Comment: show your vote with comment?

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