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Ladyshanalyn, I will PVT MSG you about this. I may have wisdom to share. Don't worry about it!
by mojo on Tue Jun 07, 05 12:42pm
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DO NOT do that!
Come to think of it though,, I have done something similar to that with a few of my lady friends. I would go all the way with them just refuse to date them because I like having my options open any given night. Ok we are both bad people
Hmm. So maybe the power side of it with females is not to give "it" up, but men "give it up" and that creates a power struggle with females? I used to be big on the "no dating" thing, and truthfully now I am starting to feel kinda bad about even messing with these dudes heads (they are all here in the big CO), and want something different, but not from any of these guys... or not even in Colorado. Something surreal and ultra fab-u-lous ;).
yep
You're busting my blue balls here.
They are probably getting theirs elsewhere anyways, dont worry about it.
Well, other than not sleeping with them, no.. but, for me, I would make it fair.. give and take. Plus, the sex would be more for me than them anyway so it's really just take take for me but at least they THINK it's for them.
Don't worry too much about it. This alone doesn't make you a bad person. NONE of us are good all the time in every way, and anyone who says they are is lying.
Whyfor you torment poor menfolk with your charms like that?
No, not all, it's not as if you're doing it to me! ;o)
I don't think they're that helpless. Unless you are getting wedding proposals and outright lying to them while feigning sincerity, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Everybody plays games. The real ones to worry about are the ones who say they don't play games. You can't help it. It's human nature.
Yes, you are a bad person. Who the hell do you think you are that you can fuck with people like that? I sincerely hope it happens to you one day, see how you like it.
OUCH DingleDung. Are any of us perfect?
by zig on Wed Jun 08, 05 11:17pm
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I guess people are confused, it is about holding out on the sex... that is the "game" or whatever you want to call it. I just don't see the point in having meaningless sex with guys... boring! These guys are friends, and nothing more, unfourtenately when friends make out during druken binges, sometimes feelings get involved, but not on my side. I just like to play, I am not into anything serious right now, and I do have a son, who hasn't seen me date a man in like 3 years (as if he needs to see guys come n go) So I guess there was more factors to present that I didn't clarify totally.
Fortunately real friends usually know when they've overstepped the line during a drunken binge, though, so no damage done if they're true friends. And having a son makes a huge amount of difference. Why bother with all that if you're really not sure about (or want) where it's going to lead? I understand the situation better now. It may not be you who's doing the playing, after all. It may be them.
by zig on Thu Jun 09, 05 2:48pm
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Anonymous, are you ladyshanalyn? Whoever you are, that's an utterly fatuous argument. Just because unspecified others (the same type of people as your victims? Somehow I doubt it...) do wrong doesn't justify *your* bad behaviour. Especially since (if you are ladyshanalyn) you have admitted full awareness of what you're doing.
So in response to your comment, it's YOU, missy, that should try to grow up & stop acting like a little princess. And yes, it would do you good to be on the receiving end of someone else's little games - perhaps then you'd not be so ready to lead others on & raise their hopes & expectations for your childish enjoyment.
PS no, this isn't necessarily about sex. It's about respect for others, something you appear to be entirely lacking.
Why stop acting like a little princess when I am one? ;) Alright, so I quit this already, and I have a new fabulous boyfriend, thanks for all of your comments, users. I am going to consider this topic closed, fini.
I must say that it is very selfish. I'm glad you quit doing it.
Whoops, forgot something
ladyshanalyn
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