WAS THIS CHICK SENDING ME MIXED SIGNALS, OR WAS I JUMPING THE GUN?

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WAS THIS CHICK SENDING ME MIXED SIGNALS, OR WAS I JUMPING THE GUN?


[+] ballot by xxxxxxxx
ACTIVE Thu Oct 13, 05 - Tue Jul 08, 08

Okay, a couple days ago, I was talking to a girl, and I was interested in her, so I asked if she was doing something Friday. She said no, so I asked, "Wanna do something Friday?" She said, sincerely and happily, "Sure!" So we talked for a bit about what movies are out there, but didn't make up our minds about anything. I said that I could pick her up around 9 and we could see what's out there or just go back to my place and watch a movie I have. She agreed to that and seemed excited about it. So I sent her a message yesterday about potential plans, and she sent me a message back, and part of it said something like, "I'm not sure if we're on the same page. You know this isn't a date, right?" Well... no, I didn't. A straight single guy and a straight single girl, who don't know each other incredibly well yet, going out to a movie and potentially to my place, on a Friday night. If that ain't a date, what the hell would that be?

She was sending you mixed signals.
You were jumping the gun, C-Tuck.
Both.
She just wants to use you for your penis
It was me dressed up like a woman, AGAIN!! HAHA!!
you are highly mistake. She means straight freindship and nothin else
She's a girl, and they're all goofy


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COMMENTS:
It could be she may feel like you might think she was easy and this is her way slowing things down.
by Steelhamster on Fri Oct 14, 05 10:54am [+]

hmmm- try a phone call - messages can be ambiguous - you might both be reading something in the messages that isn't there. The tone of your voices, etc might convey things more clearly. Good luck.
by lightreaper on Fri Oct 14, 05 6:21pm [+]

I'd go with what lightreaper said. Sounds like there may have been a bit of wire-crossing.
by Truthseeker013 on Fri Oct 14, 05 6:33pm [+]

Us women can be ambigious when giving out signals. She may not feel like it's a "date date" if that makes sense. She might be cautious about liking someone.
by aya on Fri Oct 14, 05 6:52pm [+]

go for it anyway - if it's still not 'a date' on the third occasion, you've got yourself a platonic friend, or you could just not call her anymore.
by keithsheen on Fri Oct 14, 05 8:16pm [+]

don't ask me, anyway. I was 9 times your age when I first got to kiss a girl on the hand. And she slapped me round the face.
by keithsheen on Fri Oct 14, 05 8:19pm [+]

^9 times my age, eh? So you were 216 years old when you first kissed a girl on your hand?
by xxxxxxxx on Fri Oct 14, 05 9:40pm [+]

^^^
haha - yeah - i was trying to do the math on that one too ....
by lightreaper on Fri Oct 14, 05 9:44pm [+]

Try looking for a girl a bit older...like my age.

Just kidding.

Uhhh..she sounds pretty immature to me. Or she's just trying to play hard to get. Don't mind what she says, I bet she's fully intent on making it a date.
by Cherri on Sat Oct 15, 05 12:51pm [+]

I highly doubt it, Nikki. She sent me a message today that said that she is "not interested in dating or going on a date" (apparently "dating" and "going on a date" are two different things...), so that answers that. And she's 21.
by xxxxxxxx on Sat Oct 15, 05 10:20pm [+]

So tell her "Well I am sorry, but in that case I'm going to have to cancel the outing. No offense to you, I'm just not interested."

HA!
by Cherri on Sat Oct 15, 05 11:15pm [+]

"You know this isn't a date, right?"

^^^RED FLAG RIGHT THERE!
by _Beelzebubba on Mon Oct 17, 05 9:04am [+]






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