COMMENTS:
Yep, that's me...
I’m pro spanking if it’s done to me by a women
by seon on Wed May 17, 06 11:43pm
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i'm a beaner and i have gotten a mexican whoopin. these tought me to be obedient and a very good student. I also Agree with the Seon person
hehe thanks.
by seon on Thu May 18, 06 3:15am
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One caveat: if my child kept doing something dangerous (like sticking his finger in anl electrical socket), I might give him a light slap, but not in anger.
I was hit (I won't say 'spanked', because the person was angry and used all his strength) as a small child, and it did a lot of emotional damage. I think I'm still recovering from it, even though I've forgiven the person who used to hit me.
I don't believe in hitting anyone, including women hitting men. Physical violence never, ever solves anything; just makes things worse.
by mojo on Thu May 18, 06 5:32am
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How did I know this was one of your ballots? hehe
Spanking yes, abuse no. Most of us have probably been spanked one time or another growing up.. and we are all fine. Kids today are out of control
^ Thank you: well said.
proper perspective:MODERATION!
A lot of the kids out of control are the spanked ones, hurricane.
Did you know that the Jonesboro shooter was paddled at school the day before he shot up the school? And he was regularly spanked, too...
Voted : I'm NEUTRAL
There's spanking, and there is child abuse. I've been on both sides. I was spanked as a child, by my mother and my father. WIth my mother, I knew what I was being spanked for. I never resented her for it, because I knew that what I was doing was wrong. With my father, it was another story. I knew that he was just spanking me because that was the way that his father treated him. I believe that parents who know the diffrence should have the right to discipline their children with spanking.
Voted : I'm NEUTRAL
I hardly ever spank my kids, i think this is bad for kids and if done should only be done quickly and just like a THWAK to get their attention, i don't think they should have to pay retribution for something, live and learn ya know?
If i ever see anyone taking a belt to their kid or violently spank them i get pissed.
But there are some children that do need discipline, maybe not in the form of a spanking but they do need discipline and order!
Voted : I am ANTI-SPANKING and I openly criticize other people who spank their children in public.
This is my stance. People do not realize how traumatic it is for a child to be spanked. Spanking is the most extreme form of violence the child knows. To a child, it is the equivalent of having stalled, with a broken leg, on a railroad track. The terror you, as an adult would feel, is what the child feels. It knows no other. And it is intensified by the fact that someone who is supposed to love it is making the child endure this horror. Spanking fucks up the childs mind. And I also think when you tell a child you are showing it love by doing this, you may be confusing the child and setting the stage for later sexual perversions.
Voted : I'm PRO-SPANKING but don't encourage other people to spank their children
I'm fine with spanking. I was spanked and I turned out fine, so did other people. I don't believe other people should spank other people's children, it's not your kid!
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